Three years ago… made one of the biggest decisions of my life, and Andy and I chose to end our marriage, with great sadness and grief. And somehow, three years has passed. The divorce became final last summer. Andy and I remain forever friends. So much to be thankful for even in the midst of such loss.
And truly, it has been an epic journey, at times so hard I didn’t think I would make it through. Thankfully, I have always gotten the superb and loving support that my heart and mind needed and I am beyond grateful to my beautiful friends, family and the wise ones who brought me through it with integrity, empowerment, trust. But…not easy.
And what I can tell you is this-
Do not try to skip the uncertainty, the terror, the grief, the shame, the humiliation, the disorientation around who the hell you are. Don’t try to rush or gloss over the dirty ugly parts that leave you doubled over and sleepless most of the time. Because there is more on the other side…but only ALWAYS.
I have been through enough fire walks, enough Big Cleanups as I mostly call them, to know that these Initiations… are usually in service to your becoming so much more than you think that you are. In service to a knowing of yourself that you can’t usually access in daily life without a massive shakeup.. as we know, Pain is a powerful teacher. Some of us can create more and become more without it, in my experience not most of us..
So.. dance with it, dance with who and what is in front of you.. my hashtag this past year #DanceWithMe has been my nod to that way of living.. whatever it is, whomever is here, dance with it.. see how it shifts the experience for you.
If you are on the hot coals, if you are in the Big Cleanup… let’s talk, because in one intimate beautiful conversation, I guarantee I can shift your perspective in ways that will absolutely serve you and bring a large measure of relief.. in one complimentary session. If we decide to move forward together… even more so.
****And. I am offering a new powerful individual coaching program 8 months of gorgeous customized sensuality and healing of body related issues and more.. I have 2 spots at the trial price contact me if you’r einterested.. all love to you .. lisa
#DanceWithMe #SacredContracts #BigCleanUP #FireWalk #YouAreTheTemple